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Lifestyle | The Guardian US<p>The moment I knew: standing on her shoulders, I was impressed she could bear my weight <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/apr/26/the-moment-i-knew-standing-on-her-shoulders-i-was-impressed-she-could-bear-my-weight" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2</span><span class="invisible">025/apr/26/the-moment-i-knew-standing-on-her-shoulders-i-was-impressed-she-could-bear-my-weight</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Australianlifestyle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Australianlifestyle</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Relationships</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Lifeandstyle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Lifeandstyle</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Circus" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Circus</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dating</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Stage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Stage</span></a></p>
Rev.Hans@SacredBodies.ca :mstdnca:<p>Today's question... </p><p>Ps. For more on what I’m writing, please join the “1000 early readers” to the book I’m writing at apprenticeshiptolove.com (choose the no charge option). Every month I draw a name from the list of new subs and invite that person to a conversation about what’s important or troubling or exciting in their lives.</p><p><a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/love" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>love</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/quiet" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>quiet</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/marriage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>marriage</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dating</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/men" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>men</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/women" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>women</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/menshealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>menshealth</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>relationships</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/meditation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>meditation</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/happiness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>happiness</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://open.substack.com/pub/sacredbodies/p/todays-question-april-25?r=1bxf9g&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;showWelcomeOnShare=true" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">open.substack.com/pub/sacredbo</span><span class="invisible">dies/p/todays-question-april-25?r=1bxf9g&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;showWelcomeOnShare=true</span></a></p>
Ada :v_trans: :v_pan:​<p>Arab/Indian Muslims are so dramatically over represented in my likes/super likes, it’s high-key absurd.</p><p>Those two groups are minorities where I live. Yet, put together they cover more than half of the requests I receive?</p><p>A ethnically Northern European, who is a trans woman without religious beliefs, would seemingly be fundamentally at odds with their stated faith and beliefs? My existence is literally haram 🙃?</p><p>I’m confused.</p><p><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dating</span></a></p>
💧🌏 Greg Cocks<p>Unaweep Canyon - Two Creeks Flow Out Of Either End Of This [Colorado] Canyon In Opposite Directions<br>--<br><a href="https://www.atlasobscura.com/places/unaweep-canyon" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">atlasobscura.com/places/unawee</span><span class="invisible">p-canyon</span></a> &lt;-- shared technical article<br>--<br><a href="https://doi.org/10.1130/GES01112.1" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">doi.org/10.1130/GES01112.1</span><span class="invisible"></span></a> &lt;-- shared paper<br>--<br>[seems like a motorcycle road trip is in order - and happy to visit this beautiful part of the world again]<br><a href="https://techhub.social/tags/geology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>geology</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/colorado" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>colorado</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/paleovalley" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>paleovalley</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/UnaweepCanyon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>UnaweepCanyon</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/unaweep" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>unaweep</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/precambrian" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>precambrian</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/unique" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>unique</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/divide" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>divide</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/water" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>water</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/hydrology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hydrology</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/underfit" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>underfit</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/drainage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>drainage</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/EastCreek" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>EastCreek</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/WestCreek" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>WestCreek</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/Dolores" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dolores</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/Uncompahgre" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Uncompahgre</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/UncompahgrePlateau" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>UncompahgrePlateau</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/erosion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>erosion</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/Gunninson" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Gunninson</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/canyon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>canyon</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/Tabeguache" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Tabeguache</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/mapping" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mapping</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/geologicmapping" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>geologicmapping</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/fieldwork" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fieldwork</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/Cenozoic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Cenozoic</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/gravel" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gravel</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/sediment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>sediment</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/rockcore" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>rockcore</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/coring" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>coring</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/lacustrine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>lacustrine</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/geomorphology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>geomorphology</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/geomorphometry" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>geomorphometry</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dating</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/landform" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>landform</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/volcanics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>volcanics</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/tectonics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tectonics</span></a></p>
Lifestyle | The Guardian US<p>I want to start dating casually. How do I turn off the illogical, hopelessly romantic part of my brain? | Leading questions <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/apr/25/i-want-to-start-dating-casually-how-do-i-turn-off-the-illogical-hopelessly-romantic-part-of-my-brain" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2</span><span class="invisible">025/apr/25/i-want-to-start-dating-casually-how-do-i-turn-off-the-illogical-hopelessly-romantic-part-of-my-brain</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Australianlifestyle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Australianlifestyle</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Relationships</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Lifeandstyle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Lifeandstyle</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dating</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Sex" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Sex</span></a></p>
Hacker News<p>Could GPT help with dating anxiety?</p><p><a href="https://scottaaronson.blog/?p=7262" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">scottaaronson.blog/?p=7262</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/HackerNews" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HackerNews</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/GPT" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GPT</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dating</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/anxiety" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>anxiety</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/AI" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AI</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/help" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>help</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>relationships</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/mentalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalhealth</span></a></p>
Sunflower Björnskalle 🌻<p>Wait, this just dawned on me. It's so obvious it's stupid.</p><p>It makes sense that men's attraction is both more visual and that they are the one's who more often take the initiative and do the approaching. These are inextricably linked.</p><p>Whoever makes the first move has to be focused on what they see because before the first move, there's nothing else to go on.</p><p>Unfortunately for many, it seems to stop there.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/biology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>biology</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/sex" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>sex</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dating</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>relationships</span></a></p>
Rev.Hans@SacredBodies.ca :mstdnca:<p>MEN! I curate a collection of articles on men's health on the <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://flipboard.social/@Flipboard" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>Flipboard</span></a></span> app. Lots of things from sex and penis stuff to masculinity and dating and marriage. <br><a href="https://flipboard.com/@hanspetermeyer/menshealth-j2j5av3lz?from=share&amp;utm_source=flipboard&amp;utm_medium=curator_share" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">flipboard.com/@hanspetermeyer/</span><span class="invisible">menshealth-j2j5av3lz?from=share&amp;utm_source=flipboard&amp;utm_medium=curator_share</span></a></p><p>PLEASE send broadly-defined men's health articles my way so I can review and add to the mix.</p><p><a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/menshealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>menshealth</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/menswork" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>menswork</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/sex" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>sex</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dating</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/masculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>masculinity</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/men" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>men</span></a></p>
anubis2814<a href="https://friendica.myportal.social/search?tag=autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autism</span></a> <a href="https://friendica.myportal.social/search?tag=dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dating</span></a> <a href="https://friendica.myportal.social/search?tag=actuallyautisic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyautisic</span></a> <a href="https://friendica.myportal.social/search?tag=trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> <a href="https://friendica.myportal.social/search?tag=PTSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PTSD</span></a> <a href="https://friendica.myportal.social/search?tag=CPTSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CPTSD</span></a><br>One of the things that I have learned over time, is that often you will go into a long term <a href="https://friendica.myportal.social/search?tag=relationship" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>relationship</span></a> with sort of an agreement or contract of assumptions about the relationship. Or maybe that's just me because I'm on the spectrum.<br>However at some point, often quite a few years in, especially if your partner has <a href="https://friendica.myportal.social/search?tag=trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> issues, something will make it impossible to keep the contract/agreement intact. These are often CORE parts of your agreement and incredibly important to you. This can do one of two things. Destroy the relationship because they broke the contract, or you can work together and with yourself to adjust. What no one ever tells you when they say "relationships require work".<br>Communication is essential, something I've worked hard at and rarely had issues with over relationships, but with trauma it really does involve work and accepting a reality you never actually signed up for. In sickness and in health.<br>On the spectrum its very easy to be offended and hurt by this breach of trust. However Love is more than an emotion, it is a promise and at a certain point, if its a choice between the contract or love, especially if they are putting effort into it but just can't. Discovering if they are often requiring communication and probing questions to discover their level of effort if depression and dissociation are involved. It may appear to you that they aren't putting any effort in when they are working so hard just to live with depression, anxiety or trauma. Effort, not outcome is what should define a relationship. Equal effort from all.<br>Love is also a contract and a promise to work hard to make the relationship work. How much of each contract outweighs the other depends on you. Do you sacrifice something very important for the sake of love, or feel betrayed and burn the love promise in the process.<br>All I know at this point is that no matter the relationship if I was to burn down the love contract, then try with someone else, this same thing would happen in a unique and likely just as painful way. So if you can salvage it and work together on in. You never signed up for this but that was a blank check written in the love promise. You work at it and don't give up. Verify especially from a therapist that they aren't abusing you in some way psychologically, (and physical abuse is right out) but don't assume your next relationship wont hurt just as much later when this "contract breech" happens again.<br>You are the only thing you can change, not them, its up to you to decide if your bond or their contract agreement is more important to you.
StanceOfMind<p>Why women don’t want to date a ‘red pill man’: Warning as grim male trend erupts</p><p><a href="https://flip.it/rE--EK" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">flip.it/rE--EK</span><span class="invisible"></span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Sex" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Sex</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Relationships</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dating</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Misogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Misogyny</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Masculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Masculinity</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/RedPillMan" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RedPillMan</span></a></p>
SpicyBiCutiePie 🌶🇨🇦<p>Ever felt confused, frustrated, or even a little heartbroken by the <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dating</span></a> scene? I've been there!</p><p>Dating. It's supposed to be fun, right? A chance to connect, share adventures, and maybe find your forever person. But let's be real, it can also be a rollercoaster of emotions. </p><p>Here's the good news: you can take control of your <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/lovelife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>lovelife</span></a> and create a fulfilling connection. It starts with understanding <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/attachment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>attachment</span></a> styles – those often-unconscious patterns from childhood that shape how we bond. </p><p>In this post, we'll break down the different styles, explore why avoidant types (especially Dismissive Avoidants) can bring more heartache than harmony, and I'll share my own journey with intentional dating to attract the love we all truly deserve.</p><p>Ready to level up your love life and manifest your dream relationship? Let's dive in!</p><p><a href="https://substack.com/@crissygeco/note/c-110679512" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">substack.com/@crissygeco/note/</span><span class="invisible">c-110679512</span></a></p>
Lifestyle | The Guardian US<p>I told a big fib on a first date 30 years ago – catfishing is nothing new | Emma Beddington <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/apr/20/i-told-a-truly-weird-lie-on-a-first-date-30-years-ago-and-it-worked-out-surprisingly-well" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">theguardian.com/commentisfree/</span><span class="invisible">2025/apr/20/i-told-a-truly-weird-lie-on-a-first-date-30-years-ago-and-it-worked-out-surprisingly-well</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Television" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Television</span></a>&amp;radio <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Relationships</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Onlinedating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Onlinedating</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Lifeandstyle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Lifeandstyle</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/LoveIsland" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LoveIsland</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dating</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/E4" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>E4</span></a></p>
Marcel<p>Gern teilen und mitmachen</p><p>Ich lese gerade durch verschiedene Foren "Dating Fails" und das ist teilweise schon krass was manche Leute (meist Frauen) so erleben. Da ist es ja noch harmlos, wenn der Kerl seine Mutter zum Date mitbringt :neocat_blank: </p><p>Daher frag ich einfach mal in die Runde:</p><p>Was waren eure kuriosesten / lustigsten Datingfails? :neocat_think_anime: </p><p><a href="https://fedifriends.social/tags/Umfrage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Umfrage</span></a> <a href="https://fedifriends.social/tags/Dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dating</span></a> <a href="https://fedifriends.social/tags/Date" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Date</span></a> <a href="https://fedifriends.social/tags/Fail" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Fail</span></a> <a href="https://fedifriends.social/tags/DatingFail" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>DatingFail</span></a></p>
Hippo 🍉<p>Isn't there a federated <a href="https://fosstodon.org/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dating</span></a> service? And if there is/was how would it work exactly?</p><p><a href="https://fosstodon.org/tags/Fediverse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Fediverse</span></a> <a href="https://fosstodon.org/tags/ActivityPub" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActivityPub</span></a></p>
Kristie<p>Online dating and getting constant requests to see your boobs? Here's what works for me...</p><p>Actually take a photo of your boobs.</p><p>Open the paint app on your phone.</p><p>Draw a cartoon bikini over them (I take my time, add a lot of detail)</p><p>Send that.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/Writing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Writing</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/Scotland" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Scotland</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/Women" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Women</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/Dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dating</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/Books" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Books</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/Advice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Advice</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/Bookstodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Bookstodon</span></a></p>
Lifestyle | The Guardian US<p>Blind date: ‘She called me a dork, which is what every man dreams of’ <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/apr/19/blind-date-matt-kat" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2</span><span class="invisible">025/apr/19/blind-date-matt-kat</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Relationships</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Lifeandstyle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Lifeandstyle</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dating</span></a></p>
Jools [Friendica]<p>"<i>Hallo, ich bin der G., sportliche 70 Jahre jung und fitter als manch 40-jähriger. Ich weiß, du interessierst dich für Männer, die jünger sind als ich. Lass mich erklären, warum ich dich trotzdem anschreibe. Vielleicht kann ich doch dein Herz erobern.</i></p><p><i>Sicher, die Zahl auf dem Papier ist höher. Aber diese Zahl steht auch für unzählige Sonnenaufgänge, gemeisterte Herausforderungen, gelesene Bücher und geführte Gespräche. Sie steht für Gelassenheit in stürmischen Zeiten und die Fähigkeit, die kleinen Dinge im Leben wirklich zu schätzen. Während andere vielleicht noch auf der Suche sind, weiß ich, was zählt: echte Verbindung, gemeinsames Lachen, gute Gespräche und die Freude am Moment.</i></p><p><i>Ich biete dir nicht die Ungewissheit der Jugend, sondern die Sicherheit eines Mannes, der weiß, wer er ist und der die Energie hat, das Leben in vollen Zügen zu genießen – am liebsten mit einer faszinierenden Frau an seiner Seite. Vielleicht ist Reife, gepaart mit Vitalität, ja genau das, wonach du unbewusst suchst?</i>"</p><p><br>Ich hatte maximales Alter bis 55 angegeben... 😏 Derzeit befinden wir uns noch in einer Diskussion, warum ich einfach keinen 70-jährigen Mann als Lebenspartner haben möchte... ein "<i>Nein, vielen Dank, ich wünsche dir trotzdem alles Gute auf deiner weiteren Suche</i>" hat leider nicht ausgereicht.</p><p><br>Was hatte ich das alles vermisst. 😂😂😂</p><p><br><a href="https://missocial.de/search?tag=Dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dating</span></a>, <a href="https://missocial.de/search?tag=NeinDanke" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NeinDanke</span></a></p>
RationizedInsanity🏳️‍🌈🇺🇦🇨🇦🇬🇱🇵🇸<p>Dating with <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/tourettes" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tourettes</span></a> is weird.</p><p>There are two things I have to deal with now that it is known about, but still misunderstood:</p><p>1. It's fetishized, and someone only likes me because they think it's quirky and weird. They view me more like a play thing, and don't see the real personality underneath. So I feel more like a toy.</p><p>2. They don't actually understand it, and only think they do, then doubt I actually have it, or use it against me in abusive manipulation.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/writing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>writing</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dating</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/mentalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalhealth</span></a></p>
Deutschland<p><a href="https://www.europesays.com/de/34262/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="">europesays.com/de/34262/</span><span class="invisible"></span></a> Sophia Thiel: Exklusives Liebes-Interview! Ihr Neuer wohnt schon bei ihr! | Unterhaltung <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/BILDFitness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BILDFitness</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Bodybuilding" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Bodybuilding</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Bulimie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Bulimie</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dating</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Deutschland" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Deutschland</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Entertainment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Entertainment</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Essst%C3%B6rung" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Essstörung</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Germany" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Germany</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Instagram" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Instagram</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/PohlNicola" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PohlNicola</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/SophiaThiel" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SophiaThiel</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/texttospeech" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>texttospeech</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Tinder" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Tinder</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Unterhaltung" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Unterhaltung</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Wellness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Wellness</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Youtube" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Youtube</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/YouTuber" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>YouTuber</span></a></p>
Lifestyle | The Guardian US<p>Tell us: have you been inspired to declare your love inspired by a piece of art? <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/apr/15/tell-us-have-you-been-inspired-to-declare-your-love-inspired-by-a-piece-of-art" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2</span><span class="invisible">025/apr/15/tell-us-have-you-been-inspired-to-declare-your-love-inspired-by-a-piece-of-art</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Relationships</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Lifeandstyle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Lifeandstyle</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Culture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Culture</span></a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dating</span></a></p>