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Aurin (ki/ki/kis) :autism:Practical thing for do for fight triad of abuse/rape culture and fascism?- believe survivor/victim and support - foster athmosphere of respect of boundaries, limits, feelings, needs and wants - <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/ConsentCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ConsentCulture</a> be of import and be for sex and for nonsexual thing as well - practice respect of body and bodily autonomy for self and other - celebrate joy of life! more concrete example: - someone say "not can do task"? you not push. task maybe important for cause, but friend/comrade IS cause! - someone upset, sad, have strong emotion, dissociate, leave suddenly? offer help if can guess what is needed, go after person for offer support, ask how help and then do - make sure everyone (include you!) have food and rest and check in regular, make habit of check in: Need of body? - have snack on table in in-person meeting or living space - be connect to body of self and other (if consent) and be good friends with. learn and practice communicate with own body and other (if/when wanted) - learn own body signal for distress or need or enjoy, learn friend signal, learn what different stim of autistic friend mean - make space accessible, ask of accessibility need, normalise talk about, respect conflicting needs and invite creativity for find way of handle - learn listen to instinct/ gut feeling/ vibes! this very important and no substitute for, because abuser good at twist word, like (fascist/enabling) politician - if person give bad vibe, or you notice feel worse in body or mind if person around? GET AWAY from person, no matter who, even mother. catch breath. reflect. talk with trusted friend if possible. then decide if still be let bad vibe person in life. - support self and other for cut contact with abuser, even if parent, and unlearn feeling of obligation to abuser (is same as unlearn loyalty to unjust government) - listen to vibe be process of learn. bring feeling of vibes together with other sense, with feeling of body, with emotion, with knowledge and logic and with what other ppl know. make choice base on all those - be you and obey only own value, not any authority you not trust. support other in do same, even if they be wrong, even if they question YOU. you stand by own opinion but respect friend have other view - admit mistake and learn and grow and support other do same - no shame to make friend change, no shame to shut down or cut off friend from group - goal be reconnection (unless it not friend but abuser) - celebrate weirdness, craziness, difference, surprises in how people are or feel or act - value fun, celebration, joy, light heartedness and childishness <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/AbuseCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#AbuseCulture</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/RapeCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#RapeCulture</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/antifa" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#antifa</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/antifascism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#antifascism</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/ConsentCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ConsentCulture</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/activism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#activism</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/recovery" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#recovery</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/foundFamily" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#foundFamily</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/organise" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#organise</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/organize" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#organize</a>

Firestorm BooksNext Sunday at 7pm ET, we'll be hosting a virtual conversation with queer sex blogger Mx. Nillin Lore!Nillin, who recently authored "How Do I Sexy?: A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers," will be joined by writer and activist <a href="https://freeradical.zone/@Kittystryker" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@Kittystryker</a>. Together they'll discuss Nillin's new book about finding your sexual self as a trans or nonbinary queer in a landscape rife with misogynistic, transphobic, and homophobic ideals and expectations.Learn more and find copies of books by both Nillin and Kitty at <a href="https://firestorm.coop/events/3295-trans-nonbinary-sexy-a-conversation-with-mx-nillin-lore.html" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://firestorm.coop/events/3295-trans-nonbinary-sexy-a-conversation-with-mx-nillin-lore.html</a>. Not able to make the date? Register anyway and we'll send you a recording of the conversation to stream at your convenience.<a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/SexEd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#SexEd</a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/QueerBooks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#QueerBooks</a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/Nonbinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Nonbinary</a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/ConsentCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ConsentCulture</a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/FemenistBookstore" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#FemenistBookstore</a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/FirestormCoop" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#FirestormCoop</a> (- L)

Esther Payne :bisexual_flag:This is the kinda content I want.Not just examining the individual, but societal."What Ella Enchanted Says About Consent by Crofty Conversations"<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ax7YPEFIO1U" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ax7YPEFIO1U</a><a href="https://chaos.social/tags/Consent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Consent</a> <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/ConsentCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ConsentCulture</a>

YFNAI'm reading Kitty Stryker's "Ask" and thinking about how to build <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/consentculture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#consentculture</a> when life under capitalism is fundamentally coercive 😓 Having enough agency to truly consent to something is quite rare, I think. All the more reason to practice consent in those moments

sonja dolinsekThis is not the "consent culture" that we wanted: Quote from article. He said it was “quite common” among his friends to record their partners on their phones giving verbal consent before having sex. Sometimes, he said, they recorded again midway through – this time to make sure that the girl was happy to “do something different or something” – and sometimes the phone was left recording the whole event … “to make sure”. <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/consent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#consent</a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/consentculture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#consentculture</a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/sexuality" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#sexuality</a> <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/society/article/2024/may/05/from-doomscrolling-to-sex-being-a-boy-in-2024" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.theguardian.com/society/article/2024/may/05/from-doomscrolling-to-sex-being-a-boy-in-2024</a>

Firestorm BooksOur virtual <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/ConsentMonth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ConsentMonth</a> workshop series is kicking off this weekend! Register now to join <a href="https://freeradical.zone/@Kittystryker" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@Kittystryker</a> author of "Ask Yourself: The Consent Culture Workbook," as we discuss what a consent culture is, and how we can implement it with compassion in our day-to-day lives.To join us, sign up for free at <a href="https://firestorm.coop/events/3062-ask-yourself-a-consent-workshop-series.html" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://firestorm.coop/events/3062-ask-yourself-a-consent-workshop-series.html</a> (link in bio). A copy of "Ask Yourself" is suggested, but not required for participation!“Ms. Kitty Stryker is a true force of nature. Smart, sassy, saucy, sexy, and to-the-bone honest, hers is a voice that needs to be heard. And she has excellent shoes.”—David Henry Sterry, author of "Chicken: Self-Portrait of a Young Man for Rent"<a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/ConsentCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ConsentCulture</a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/ConsentWorkshop" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ConsentWorkshop</a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/Feminism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Feminism</a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/FeministBookstore" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#FeministBookstore</a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/AskYourself" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#AskYourself</a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/KittyStryker" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#KittyStryker</a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/FirestormCoop" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#FirestormCoop</a> (- L)

E.W. Doc ParrisSee? You opened that CW and are reading this now because you chose to.That's called consent and it's built into this place.No one can ram their thoughts at you without your consent.Isn't that better?<a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/ConsentCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ConsentCulture</a> > <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/CancelCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#CancelCulture</a>

Orion S."Needing" a cw can be for your own reasons that you determine, whether they're super serious, or just because. Needing Christmas cw'd doesn't have to be because Christmasy stuff brings flashbacks about when a family member died or other deeply serious reasons like that. (That's bound to be super common, if you think about it.) It's also okay to say "no thanks" to things just because you personally don't like them. It's okay to ask for a cw because you like it best if you can opt into it when or if you want. It's important to be able to do that, because that's <a href="https://dragon.style/tags/ConsentCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ConsentCulture</a>.

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